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Francis Essiet

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Why Do I Feel the Need to Tell People I'm Busy?

Sometimes someone asks how you're doing, and you already know the answer you're going to give before you've even thought about the question and it's not because you don't have anything to say. Because someone ask how you've been. For a moment, you could tell them about the things you've been trying to hold together, the decisions you've been making, or even the fact that you haven't quite known how to explain how you've been feeling.

What Quietly Happens Inside The Brain(Mind) During Lonely Moments.

It gets to a certain point in our lives, when the pressure of building something meaningful quietly changes. In the beginning, the thought of doing the work itself feels like the hardest part. Because the idea of learning new things, experimenting with what you're learning, and even the more tedious thought of starting feels so overwhelming.

Why We Mistake Isolation For Independence | The Quiet Observer.

There comes a point in the lives of many thoughtful people when carrying everything alone begins to feel like their normal Life. And it's not because they intentionally chose to be in isolation. But because their responsibility quietly expanded faster than they actually noticed.